Cancel a Crush

Once a crush message is sent, it can be recalled until you both are paired. Once paired, you can only delete and block a user.

When a crush message is recalled, message delivered discreetly to the recipient but not paired will disappear from the recipient's crush list.

Note: Your identity stays hidden throughout, so there is no way for the recipient to know who sent it unless they also send a crush back. If you no longer want the thread to stay active, you can let it expire naturally rather than reciprocating. A thread started with a free credit expires after 7 days on its own; premium credit threads stay open until you decide otherwise.